Am I controlling? How?

Yes, I control others with manipulation, playing the victim or just letting them provide my happiness. 

How many ways do I recognize

  1. of what people hear....I only tell certain things to others to get what I want, or to keep them as friends.  In part this is also a way of telling them what they expect to hear. 
  2. to control people actions...I give instructions as to what to do...eg as a director in a play.
  3. to control peoples feelings... 
  4. to control my emotions...
  5. using gossip to get control of someone
  6. try and control my thoughts....that's just point less
  7. I have lies to get my way or so someone doesn't leave me
  8. I read up on people to know what their up to getting control of their behavior
  9. try to control my future by saying the right things to others
  10. I try no to threaten to control but, i have used it in ways of your not allowed to...or do this I'm leaving. 
I still barely understand this and i have read fellow travelers, I still need to take a closer look at myself to fully become aware to my "trying " to control others

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